Choosing to seek out and find love is one of the most personal endeavors one can take. It is not something to be taken lightly. It is natural to ask for advice or support when searching for the right person to share lives with. Most of the time, friends and family are very supportive, as they want the best for their loved ones. However, that support can sometimes be misguided and limit the opportunities a person can have.
Loved ones sometimes try to set up dates with people who they think will be the right fit, but often these attempts do not work out. While their hearts may be in the right place, often they are unable to keep a clear mind when searching for a match for their loved ones. They operate from their own perspective, as opposed to trying to understand your perspective. It comes from a place of love and protection, but it may end up missing the mark. They may even discourage you from enlisting help from relationship services due to the erroneous belief that asking for help in finding a mate is some kind of failure. It is far from it.
The team at Valenti Matchmaking focuses on its clients’ perspectives, cultivating a deep understanding about their desires and needs. Being objective and professional allows us to have clear eyes when looking for the right match. While we deeply care for our clients, our process is free from the emotional dynamics and biases that loved ones can inadvertently bring to the process. Our mission is to help you define what you want and to help you find it. Your happiness is our priority.
We found this article helpful in understanding how important it is to place you needs and wants first. Caring for yourself allows you to lead a happier life, which in turn will help all the loved ones around you!
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