
With over 35 years of matchmaking success, our Valenti Secret Recipe has become the trusted choice for discerning individuals who won’t settle for less.
“I invite you to share in something that must be experienced to be understood, a journey that words alone cannot capture—an experience that transforms lives.”
~ Irene Valenti, Matchmaker / Relationship Coach
The Gold Standard in Private Matchmaking
For 35 years, we have compiled an extensive client base of singles from around the world, some of the world’s most successful and fascinating singles have turned to Valenti Matchmaking for guidance and personal coaching to find the person that they have not been able to find on their own. Through our private and selective approach, we have transformed people’s lives for the better. We have turned doubters to dreamers- skeptics to soulmates. We have brought together the most remarkable people—millionaires, billionaires, celebrities, models, entrepreneurs, philanthropists, and professionals—all looking for genuine, lasting relationships

Personalized Matchmaking Crafted Just for You
Every step of your journey with Valenti Matchmaking is customized specifically to you. With an impressive 85% client success rate, our expert team follows a proven proprietary process. In essence, it is a cycle of initial understanding, focused effort, and eventual mastery, which is a complex, multi-faceted process combining customized contracts, an in-depth private one-on-one personal profile creation session, skilled review and our proprietary compatibility system, hand-selected introductions and a 360 degree feedback/ review process.
Experience a transformative, life-changing journey to finding the love that’s meant for you


From Your First Consultation to Your Last First Date
Every step of your journey is designed to reflect your individuality, combining personalized attention with a proven methodology that leads to lasting love.
We invite you to discover the Valenti difference for yourself and take the first step toward a meaningful connection.


The Visionary Behind The Big Red V
At the heart of the Big Red V is its founder, Irene Valenti- a true visionary and the queen of traditional matchmaking. For over 35 years, she has redefined what it means to connect hearts and build lasting legacies in love.
With the soul of a romantic and the precision of a strategist, Irene Valenti has guided thousands of successful professionals and entrepreneurs toward finding not just any match – but the match. Her work is deeply personal, intuitive, and rooted in heritage. Long before dating apps and algorithms, she was crafting real-life love stories the old-fashioned way, with discernment, care, and a touch of timeless elegance.
Her presence is the brand. Elegant, elevated, and universally refined – she is the Big Red V. And now, as the brand evolves, she remains its compass – blending modern touches with an unwavering devotion to discretion, dignity, and depth.
The Big Red V is more than a matchmaking service, it’s a legacy of love, guided by a founder who believes that, Life well lived…. Deserve love well matched.
– Irene Valenti, Founder
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