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1. You feel compelled to be loyal. 2. You think of ways you will love them more than you think of the ways you hope they will love you. 3. You start compromising on things you thought you wouldn’t. 4. You’re happy when they are, because they are. 5. There is a sense of peace...

This simple technique is designed to deepen all of your intimate relationships, including your relationship with yourself. Each of its three steps leads to greater authenticity; to a gentle, skillful “overthrow” of the inner and outer voices which hold us back from deeper love.  It’s acronym, “AHA” can help us remember each step. Step 1: Authenticity The initial step is Authenticity....

According to the book Real Love, unconditional love is, in essence, true love — so different from the kind of love most of us have known all our lives that it deserves a definition of its own. Unconditional love is caring about the happiness of another person without any thought for what we might get for ourselves. It’s...

Women often say that men confuse them and that they are unsure what a man is really looking for. They have tried to please them in the past and it hasn’t worked so no, the man can concentrate on pleasing them or leave. If the media is to be believed, many women don’t care what...

Men act like they are the only species afraid of commitment. We are. We are very scared. It is a very hard concept to wrap our testosterone-filled bodies and child-like brains around, when genetically and biologically, by laws of nature and procreation, we are meant to inseminate as many females as possible (at the same...

Many of us have pondered the concept of soul mates before. What is a soul mate? Do I have one? And if so, where is mine? The idea that there is one special person created just for you is too juicy not to consider.  I definitely believe in soul mates, but my definition extends beyond...

What makes the perfect girlfriend? Contrary to what you might think, most guys aren’t looking for a supermodel. They’re just looking for their perfect match: a woman who’s down-to-earth, sweet and sensitive to his needs. Here are ten attractive traits that every man keeps in mind when deciding if the woman (i.e. you) sitting across...

Inspiration is everywhere — from the words of your favorite writer to the blooms and leaves on your morning walk. You just need to open your eyes, and breathe it in. Sometimes it helps to talk to others who are creative to get ideas about what gets their creativity juices flowing. Here, 10 creative people share the...

7 Things Men Want In A Relationship Jordan Gray says that there are seven simple things that basically all men crave in an intimate relationship. Men are often reluctant to talk about their needs in intimate relationships. Whether social conditioning or an inability to communicate our needs are to blame, men (who tend to be...

Is there someone whom you are seeing at the moment? Are you wondering if he/she is “the one”? In your journey through love, you are going to meet many prospects. Some of them may seem really great at first, but turn out to be jerks later on. Some may be fleeting encounters, such as one-night-stands and flings....