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1. You feel compelled to be loyal. 2. You think of ways you will love them more than you think of the ways you hope they will love you. 3. You start compromising on things you thought you wouldn’t. 4. You’re happy when they are, because they are. 5. There is a sense of peace...

This simple technique is designed to deepen all of your intimate relationships, including your relationship with yourself. Each of its three steps leads to greater authenticity; to a gentle, skillful “overthrow” of the inner and outer voices which hold us back from deeper love.  It’s acronym, “AHA” can help us remember each step. Step 1: Authenticity The initial step is Authenticity....

According to the book Real Love, unconditional love is, in essence, true love — so different from the kind of love most of us have known all our lives that it deserves a definition of its own. Unconditional love is caring about the happiness of another person without any thought for what we might get for ourselves. It’s...

Women often say that men confuse them and that they are unsure what a man is really looking for. They have tried to please them in the past and it hasn’t worked so no, the man can concentrate on pleasing them or leave. If the media is to be believed, many women don’t care what...

Men act like they are the only species afraid of commitment. We are. We are very scared. It is a very hard concept to wrap our testosterone-filled bodies and child-like brains around, when genetically and biologically, by laws of nature and procreation, we are meant to inseminate as many females as possible (at the same...